Most people are just like you, and what that means is their number one obsession is themselves! They too are dramatically concerned about how they appear to the outside world. Not everyone you suspect of being against you or of disliking you actually feels that way. If you feel embattled and attacked at every turn, you may need to look at the common factor in all your conflicts: you. Straif ill-dignified dearth: Always preparing for war It is OK to think highly of yourself - you don’t have to talk about how much you love yourself, but you can show others your self-respect via your boundaries. By drawing your own limits and gently but firmly insisting upon them, you provide a model not only for yourself but for others around you to develop resilience in the face of strife. Learn to say “no” in a kind, polite, and respectful way and you will actually improve your appeal to others, which is what you’ve sought all along by being too nice. As much as many people appreciate your kindness, you need to learn when to turn it off, because it is a way of surrendering to your own worst impulses. What was your most recent moment of painful but constructive self-analysis? Did you take action? What was the end result? List three of the major battles you’ve had to fight in your life. You may need to sacrifice in order to become a stronger, better human being.īy admitting (not repressing), analyzing, and dealing with your dark emotions instead of allowing them to call the shots, drawing Straif well-dignified points to the real possibility you’ve dodged a nasty bit of strife because you’ve already learned not to be fear’s or anger’s puppet. Just as a sword must be subjected to multiple processes to become sharp, sparks are going to have to fly before you can forge your destiny.
Straif is a battle you must fight and often a disruption in routine. This experience can be transformed into a learning tool if you can work it out. When you draw Straif, there is an experience being put in your way that isn’t pleasant. Strife can either drag you down or raise you up by making you more resilient, but it is all in how you choose to handle it. Thirdly, you can use your anger as a starting point or what is called a thrust block from which to make yourself so completely different from what is causing you anger that you end up rising above it and beating it at its game. You can do nothing/go the pacifist route and try to repress your anger, which will cause it to build up and eat at you from the inside in the form of depression. You can wallow in your anger and lash out foolishly, which effectively makes you act in sympathy with that which you despise. When you get mad or hate something because it goes against your grain, you have choices. Resilience through hardship, hardening off, discipline, sacrifice Tree: Blackthorn/Sloe (Prunus spp.) Letter: Z Image from Wikipedia
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